ABUSE TEST
The words or actions of another person can profoundly affect us. To discover if you are in a potentially abusive relationship, please take the confidential test below. More than 3 means you are in a potentially abusive situation.

Is there someone in your life who:
Says they are not mad when you ask them what they are mad about?
Tells you in some way that it is your fault?
Rarely, if ever, wants to share their thoughts or plans with you?
Makes you wonder, What's wrong with me? I should not feel so bad?
Does not allow you to say, "no" or "stop it", without a punishment?
Makes you feel like a child in the relationship?
Requires you to ask permission and or  apologize for your behavior ? 
Makes you  feel powerless and "less than"? 
Takes the opposite view from you on almost everything.
Criticizes your friends & family, therefore you have you stopped seeing them?
Lacks the ability to laugh at them self? 
Rarely apologizes/ admits wrong doings?
Blames you for the problems in the relationship or with them?
Makes unreasonable sexual demands on you? Too much or too little sex.
Whose personality changes with alcohol? 
Uses "humor" to put you down? 
Decides when / where the two of you will go? 
Makes excuses for their behavior or always blame others for their actions?
Controls / disapproves of your spending, but has no problem spending on them self? 
Allows others to put  you down? 

DESTINY MANAGEMENT TEST
Our dreams are the maps for our life. If you lose your dreams (ie, your map), you will lose your way. Do you need empowerment on connecting to your life destiny map? Take the test and see.

Do You...
Do you suffer from depression?
Do you suffer from anxiety?
Do you get irritated easily?
Do you get bored easily?
Are you lacking passion?
Do you feel "stuck"?
Do you ask yourself, "Is this it?
Are your dreams foggy?
Do you get overwhelmed when you look at the big picture of your dream?

SELF-ESTEEM TEST
Self-esteem is one of the most important internal elements we can posses. How is the structure of your Self-Esteem?

Do you avoid taking risks.
Do you get defensive or really hurt when someone tells you something is wrong with you.
Do you have an exact list called “what I don’t like about myself.”
Do you allow certain needs of your to go unmet.
Do you “should” on yourself.
Do you “should” on other people.
Do your shoulds demand the impossible of yourself.
Do you lack the ability to ask for what you want.
Do you feel unworthy to have the things you really want.
Do you fear rejection.
Do you fear being alone.
Do you always put other peoples need above your own.
Do you people please.
Do you apologize… a lot.
Do you suffer from depression.
Do you resist change, by hanging onto the old, even if it hurts you to hold onto it?
Do you worry about “what if”, instead of “what is”.
Do you feel victimized.
Do you feel invisible.
Do you hold onto resentment.
Do you want what you cannot have.
Do you not feel whole.
Does fear dominate your life.
Do you feel unworthy.
Ignore your successes and focus on your downfalls.
Are you performance oriented.
Are you a perfectionist.
Do you look for things outside yourself to make you happy for example:
(unsafe sex, eating lots of junk food, or just lots of food, drugs (prescription or not, staying busy, burning out, gambling, staying drunk, working compulsively, over spending, over sleeping, being religious,
Do you ever say things like:
Something must be wrong with me.
I am inadequate, unworthy or unlovable.
There is nothing I can do to change my life.
Something terrible will probably happen, so I must stay prepared by always expecting the worst.
Other people and other situations are to blame for my hardships.
Do you think, “What is wrong with me?”